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Monday, 08 February 2010

  • Double Standard

    Two weeks ago CBS rejected an ad from ManCrunch.com but they accepted the pro-life group focus in the family ad featuring Teabow and his mom. I feel that if one commercial didn't get accepted because it shows a gay dating site, they should banned Focus in the Family also. Otherwise, that channel will be influenced as a republican channel which it is. For me it's nothing wrong that gays will find love, but it's wrong to deliver unwanted kids into this world ending up in garbage cans or grow up to be unstable serial killers. OH, my god, the irony of stupidity!

Saturday, 06 February 2010

  • Dark Skinned Women Should Be Treated Like Gold, Not Like Dirt

    Let me tell you my readers who exactly I am. I'm 37, my weight is aprox. 190-195 pounds, of course Dark Skinned Puerto Rican woman who lived in the Northeast and Northwest parts of the US for a total of 9 years now. I'm married with a Caucasian male for 5 years. Work full-time like anybody who is blessed to have a job now-a-days and my hobby is to play Video Games from Wii, PS3 to playing World of Warcraft. But even thought my life each day is getting better, I'm still had grudges. And Not those common ones, like hating someone for something you don't expect to happen. But all my life, society had been treated me like dirt ever since I was brought into this world unwanted. Do you know my real father acknowledged me two years after I was born? Most fathers intermediately put their last name on that birth certificate the second that baby comes into the world. I was unknown for two years.

    Later years I was bullied from First Grade until High School. From giving me a piece of a soiled popcorn, to move my backpack out of the classroom, to being punched my eye twice to have my piece of my hair cut among other things. For that, I have self-esteem issues along with depression for years. My college years were awkward since I felt invisible. But as years passed on I succeeded in some, failed a lot but I'm still surviving in a society that literally prefers the thin, than the thick, and light than the dark from Mainstream to Porn. For many years Society stereotyped us negatively on how we're dressed, act and be. Based on them, we're foulmouthed, arrogant outspoken with a bad attitude, overweight, dependent and lazy. Society has been criticized Dark Skinned Females from our nappy hairs to our flawless skin but that's not all constantly we constantly changed unsuccessfully to be accepted from the opposite sex, to get jobs, to even be like those skinny girls on the media but in the end we hit the wall big time. Whether we're African-American, Dominican, Cuban, Haitian or Puerto Rican, the world view us with indifference, disrespect and discrimination.

    Even if we had our first Dark Skinned woman to be the first Lady, society bashed her by placing a photo replacing her face with a monkey. Even if we're better mothers, independent, caring, hardworking and valuable more than gold, society treats Dark Skinned women like dirt like we're not acceptable or presentable for dating, to have a family, to be career women, to even achieve goals. Instead it's all the opposite to the point magazines like Vanity Fiar ignored great actresses of color in their latest issue.

    Literally, I'm sick of it. This is a war that many women of color or dark skinned faced since the moment they're born. We should start embracing of who we are to then focus of who we're going to be instead of placing the wrong pieces of an incomplete jigsaw puzzle brought by society and learn to value ourselves and learn that if society doesn't like us, they can fuck themselves.

Thursday, 28 January 2010

  • Readable Tidbits

    http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=utf-8"> name="ProgId" content="Word.Document"> name="Generator" content="Microsoft Word 12"> name="Originator" content="Microsoft Word 12">Stimulus Money Going Nowhere For The Real Need

     

    It’s incredible! That money is supposed to help increase jobs not for building small empty airports and private bridges for Microsoft among other unnecessary projects. That stimulus project should be used for creating jobs, provide financial aid for working people who were displaced by layoffs to go back to college without thinking about how much does it cost and focus on learning new skills that will help them reach the American Dream for themselves and their families.  We pay, pay and pay with our sweat and tears for then what? For these corporations, these private sectors are literally stealing from our fronts and backs? Yes! That’s what’s happening right now and voters are so “concentrated” on the damn Super Bowl instead of getting inform, act and demand what’s going on with your money! Our money is NOT a gift! Giving Our money (in many cases against our will) is our guarantee that the government will DO what it suppose to do in the first place. To serve and help it’s people like you and me to reach our goals in society. Otherwise, why the hell we voted for them in the first place? To be millionaires at the cost of the hardworking struggled middle class while the low-fixed income are between a rock and a hard place? Like I always ask, why a foreigner like myself will ever have interest in United States government than someone who were born, raised and “spoiled?” Everybody in this world say how “free” and “democratic” this country was, how the people lived, progressed to become better citizens. And now it’s up to the private sectors to think what’s better for this country than our forefathers of democracy. It’s a shame that Americans are taking their “freedoms” for granted and not doing anything to change the outcome. Once again, it’s your choice to be fucked up or to be a fighter.

    There’s something to be learned

     

    About this guy and ex-NBA player and ESPN.com “commenter” Paul Shirley who despised Haitians for this earthquake and said that they’re responsible for their outcome, millions of people who read it were like “WTF?”  As I wrote earlier, it’s their government fault because they didn’t correct and maintain their infrastructure including septic systems, energy, water and building regulations. Haiti is in complete ruins and with all the billions of money in the world given to help them isn’t going to fix this wrecked country. Perhaps this commenter was harsh, but he’s got a point. The causes of why Haiti is the poorest country to the whole entire world it’s because of a weak and corrupt government. There are no laws there, there’s no order. But yes, there’s a lot of anarchy.  It’s like no matter you put a dress and make-up and teach a pig some new tricks, that animal is still a pig.  That animal will be doing it’s old tricks. That’s how these poor people of Haiti are doing it for decades and the rest of the world just ignores it. Until this disaster happened. I just wonder, why the hell they didn’t help this country before? Is it’s because this small country doesn’t have nothing to produce and sell to foreign market like oil, or produce or technology perhaps? If it does, should Haiti government will take it as it’s advantage? Sure! But then this whole world is so hypocrite to start bashing Haiti but then they don't help the homeless, veterans, single mothers and whatnot in their own countries. That's like pointing a finger to later giving the flipping bird and walk away.

    Just one sentence. If you wanna help a foreign country, go ahead. But don't go complaining and denigrating and bashing these victims constantly.

Friday, 22 January 2010

  • Currently
    Gamer
    By Gerard Butler, Amber Valetta, Michael C. Hall, Kyra Sedgwick, Alison Lohman
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    This is Stupid

    Why There's an All-White Basketball League?

    Despite the recent violence and scandals related in and out of the basketball courts a groups of retards have formed a "All-American" "Only White" league dedicated to basketball. Are you kidding me? And then we showed to all the world that we're the most racist country in the world, huh? Based on his ignorant comments by former pro-wrestler and owner Don "Moose" Lewis, people who are white are in a minority now and they need to play "fundamental" basketball the way it must be played. In other sense, boring! I hope the KKK and Aryans have fun with that with their broke wallets!

    Why There's no fast aid delivery for the people of Haiti?

    As you people might now, Haiti has the highest percentage of corruption which means the humongous supplies of food, clothes, water and medicines are still laying in the airports for days while the people who needs it most are desperate, in despair and worst of all violent. Right now I don't see any government instead it's just anarchy.



Thursday, 21 January 2010

  • Readible Tidbits

    First, Delight Yourself with a Nice Breakfast Recipe

    Egg Pie (Serves Two or One Person if you have a big appetite)

    2 Eggs
    Half Cup of Hash Browns thawed not frozen
    1 Teaspoon of Bacon Bits or Real Bacon Pieces
    Salt and Pepper to taste or Ms. Dash if you're salt restricted
    4 Tablespoons of Milk
    Chopped Onions around 1/3 cup to taste
    Pam Spray
    Grated Cheese (Cheddar, Mozzarella or a Mix if you prefer)

    First, put all the ingredients in a bowl, mixing it up. Heat the oven at 400 degrees. Then, use a greased small skillet pan and heat the stove at medium for a few minutes. Pour the mix in the pan and lower the temperature to low, cover it and leave it for 2 minutes before putting it in the oven for another 15 to 20 minutes covered. After it, decorate it with your favorite grated cheese and enjoy!

    Now, Interested Issues: They Screwed It Big Time!

    The senate mayority is republican now after the loss of their democratic candidate for the senate Creigh Deeds after the Lion of the Senate Ted Kennedy died recently. Now his dream of creating fair and honest Health Care for all no matter their background or financial situation or even a pre-existing condition is going up in smoke. These democrats are making mistakes after another and now they're up to draw "changes" for at least pass this fucked up Health Care Reform. I doubt it people who really needs it are going to be helped. Health Care in this country is mostly for the rich, while the hard working class are trying to met ends meet and being on bankruptcy because they can't pay high costs of premiums and medical bills. Well, that's America!